8:34am Wednesday
Saint Paul
Someone asked:
> What are some strategies for persuading someone
> with differing opinions who is not open to listening
> to our perspective?
Before you can persuade someone, which should be to their benefit (otherwise it’s manipulation), he or she must have an open mind. If you can’t get there, nothing will work.
*|FNAME|*, persuading people is not easy. You have to set up a situation where they’re willing to question their own entrenched ideas, which means they may come to the conclusion that they’ve been wrong about this idea for however long.
And—as no one wants to be wrong, possibly shifting their entire world view—they’d rather fight than see the light.
So you can’t persuade them as much as you can give them the opportunity and ideas to persuade themselves.
Now, to open someone’s mind to a new way to see the world, you have a few options…
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